Great to read your update and so pleased that you stood up for yourself and showed your w Cali 2.0 will not be a pushover, it was brewing I think ..... also glad she responded well to it.
I have been following along with your journey since I joined and you have become an inspiration to me, I often ask myself "what would Cali do/say", really I do. You have found the art of listening, validation and patience, I am terrible at it and I know I am pushing my luck with h on occasions, it's a miracle I have got this far really lol.
How do you keep it all in and not say what your head is thinking?