Parents: help me parenting while separated (2)

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I am again calm.
I am calm since I realized yesterday I cannot allow this situation to go on any longer and so it needs to be addressed.
I realized I need to set a boundary.
I cannot accept that my STBXW moves out - I cannot do anything about this - and that I will be paying for her new flat and expenses - I can react to this.
Legally, until we divorce half of what I earn is also hers.
So, the only thing I can do is to speed up the paperwork and file for divorce right now and not wait for Christmas.
I don't want this D but I cannot oppose it either.
Being passive will only increase this feeling of being violated and disrespected.
Therefore I talked to my W and tonight we are going to review all the needed agreements and file for an amicable divorce. I plan to have all the paperwork ready by Friday.