Hi Sotto, We live in a state where everything is 50/50 and no fault. Of course we can decide otherwise if we agree, but by law there is not much force for H to pay for anything to me if he decides to quit being in the family. But yes, second opinion is always a good thing.
Yes I've been GALing mostly with kids on the weekend and by myself during the week when H can watch the kids. However, it is still forced and I'm doing that more so H will notice than for myself. It's hard to get out of that mentality...
