Hello Ghost. I do find it fascinating how similar all of our situations are. I posted somewhere how I felt that this behavior must have a physiological/evolutionary basis as it is so common in middle age. I am however trying to stop trying to find logic in her actions and keep the focus on me and the person who I will become at the end of this quagmire.
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.