LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M

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For the last 3 weeks I've been GAL and have made plans for at least one weekend night and gave her plenty of notice in order to secure my night out. She too has been sure to be away from the house on her weekend night. 2 weekends ago she didn't come home until the morning but this last weekend she was home by 10:15pm. I didn't really expect her to come home and I've been contemplating reclaiming the master bedroom so our 4 year D and I were sleeping in the Master bedroom. She knocked on the door. I let her in.
She said "what are you doing?"
I said "sleeping" as I headed back to the bed
She said "well, will you sleep in the basement?"
I said "no" as I climbed back into bed.
She said "the boys bed doesn't have sheets on it"
I said "neither does the basement bedroom, I'm washing them."
She said "Will you sleep in the basement anyway?"
I said "no"
She asked "why was the door shut and locked"
I said " I didn't want you to come in"
she quietly left.

I think I did a good job of standing up for myself. Most of our marriage has been me catering to her wants and needs. I'm all done with it.

she just sent me a text that said "If we're doing 1 weekend night free, I would like Saturday this week please"
I waited about 30 min and responded "Ok"

She's making plans way in advance this week. Makes me think she's planning a special date with OM. Trying to not worry about it.

I'm meeting with my counselor tonight. He was our marriage counselor prior to her first A. I'm looking forward to his opinion about reclaiming the master bedroom.