I don't know how to brake from him. I'm so obsessed with him.
I am in the same boat. I can't do the same, either. I love my W dearly and want this marriage to work out. I try so hard to detach, but that is almost impossible for me as I find myself texting, calling, or emailing her. I think that comes from the fact that she hasn't given me a REAL reason for divorce. I'm just as lost.
I would like to say it gets better but after 7 months I haven't even begun to see any light. Hope it gets better and will be following along!
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.