She went out last night as did I for the first time in a while. She constantly tried to find out when I would be home so she could let the babysitter know. I dodged the question a few times and finally told her to just let her know when you would be home and if I get there earlier then great. I made sure to get home after her! She did not seem happy.
Very typical of a WW. And, if you were to start going out with a "friend"....dressed as if you were on the prowl, and then staying most of the next night with that same "friend", you'd see just how unfair she sees you doing the same action as she's doing. I'm not saying that's what you need to do. I'm just letting you know it is typical.
She wouldn't like you asking for details about her plans, but she thinks she is entitled to know yours.
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the one part that i am just overthinking is the part asking about the paperwork. yes this did show strength on my side and that i am not chasing her, but it feels weird to ask for something to get done that i dont want.
DBing is counterintuitive.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
