A few months ago, my husband dropped the bombshell on me - he wants a divorce. Apparently he's been wanting this for years, but has been worried of what would become of me. Now he can't continue any longer. I prob shouldn't have been surprised. Our marriage has never been good, our relationship was great up until we got married. See, we met overseas and about a year later he moved here to pursue his dreams. We did the long distance for a while and a few years later I followed. Ever since then, our relationship has been plagued with money problems. I had some bad experiences on the job market and since I was very young and didn't know what I wanted to do, I kinda hid behind him and put everything on his shoulders. He has a job where he travels a lot, for months at a time. He recently came back after one of these trips and told me. He also met someone one going through a similar thing with her spouse and they are now having an EA. She doesn't really have anything to do with it, but I'm sure being in love with someone else is making it easier for him to leave me and our young child. He has SO much anger and resentment towards me, but he says that as we move on as friends and coparents, it will go away. I know I put myself in this situation. But is there any hope? I asked him to leave, so he no longer lives here. He's about to embark on another long trip for work.
