I had an EA several years ago. Reason being is she was threatening divorce back then. Every 2 years or so she would threaten it and then change her mind. Also at the time we were stressed out due to life's complications.
I went to a shrink, we attended marriage counseling and I cut off all ties with the other woman. I never would have left my wife for her, was never even a thought. It was more so getting the attention I didn't get at home.
So she would have to do similar tactics to prove it's what she wanted. Namely her best friend would have to go. The girl has been an issue since the minute she came around.
Do I want to get back together with my WW? I don't really think so. During this separation I have discovered a lot about myself and what I want out of life. She no longer really fits that category.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016
