A new thread for Eye-Tie

[JulieH]

I also noticed that it seems like you both were using the threat of infidelity to hurt and perhaps control one another? Early in your situation when she was about to leave, you mentioned to her that you had found someone else. Could This have set her into a panic, remembering the past hurts?

As an outsider, I feel like you guys are perhaps just developing a big unhealthy cycle and not truly implementing techniques to save a marriage and family, but to move on and cause as much hurt as possible. It seems like both of you might just be self medicating at this point, but on different time lines.