Shakspr, happy to read your update. It's both encouraging and disheartening that so many of us have moved on.
I would like to do a Spartan Race, but I'll be honest I'm very intimidated. I am signed up for a Battlefrog later this fall, but whether I'll have the guts to go through with it is a different story.
Originally Posted By: Shakspr
1) Give your X a special ring tone and text notification. As soon as I did that, I stopped cringing and elevating my anxiety level every time the phone made a sound.
I did the opposite. When he was "H", he had a special ring tone and text tone so I would know it was him and respond as soon as possible. After he moved out, I changed it back to the default tone, he gets treated like one of the crowd.