Time to let go.....How? (2)

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understood, and i know you are not trying to be confusing.

loaded question about getting closer to the goal. I know we all found this place trying to sort out a way to get our spouse back. We are told that we need to detach, gal, and set goals for ourselves.
If my ultimate end goal with doing all of this is to somehow get my W back and i have not abandoned that goal along with creating others for myself then i do not know if it had or not.

I know it has helped me let go a little bit more than i was because i voiced some things that i have been afraid to. I was afraid to rock her boat and was putting myself second.

Did it do anything to help our R, well who knows. time will tell.

thanks again