OK, so let me ask you a question because i feel very confused at times like this. I at first thought you didnt think i should have spoke to my wife, then i felt you thought i should have with the gambling analogy, now i feel the opposite again!!

I know you are trying to give me both sides and some things need to be thought through but just trying to clarify.

Also i plan on not bringing any of it up again to her, but just wanted to set a few boundaries. I am just worried i am pushing her into something she may have been rethinking.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15