I have been reading your situation and I was initially feeling this sentiment of " go eye tie. Your wife was unfaithful, you met someone else and now she wants you back". Something that I have admittedly fantasized about when I'm feeling very hurt.
But then if I am not mistaken, I read that you had actually had affairs first. Is this true? What is the difference in your mind? Why and how did she forgive you? Did she actually forgive you? Are there double standards? Do you ever look back and consider what she must have went through at the time? If you expected her to trust you again why is it that you cannot?
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
