Still Struggling with a plan!

[hopeOK]

Yeah, it is concerning but I'm not particularly bothered by it right now.

However, I am a bit more concerned about this fb messenger... it seems this weekend when we were in the car & I was driving, he quickly looked at me & back at his phone & when I looked quickly at his phone, I saw the message image... I think it is the one you see when you have no messages from someone if you were to look them up & click on message. I am not positive b/c I have an iPhone & he has an android... so it is a little different. But combined with him quickly looking at me (something I noticed a few times when he was actually cheating) and then looking at that, it has me on alert. I haven't said anything & It isn't to the point of keeping me up at night (which when I really worry about something, it does keep me up nearly all night)... but another thing to file away for future reference if I need it. It could literally be nothing... he did leave his phone on the table when he went to the bathroom a few hours earlier when we were out to eat. How to arrange when to message one another while also leaving your phone out for your spouse to see seems like it would be so hard to manage. So this part has me questioning my suspicions.

But otherwise, things are carrying on over here. Yesterday I had a lot to do and we were both really busy around the house. Things felt a bit disconnected because of that & I thought we seemed a bit further apart. But I guess that is how life goes.