Thanks LouR. The logical part of me knows either way I will come out of this situation better. Sometimes I have a hard time convincing my heart.
I heard from H yesterday. The bank we were banking at for the store changed hands and he must not have gotten the new debit card. He was just asking if I had gotten any mail for him from the bank. Almost accusing me of not getting him his mail. He has forwarded his mail to his new address and I have gotten any mail for him for over a month.
He was all business in his email, so I responded in kind letting him know I hadn't received any of his mail. I am guessing he either didn't receive the new debit card yet or he threw it away thinking it was junk mail. I knew the bank changed hands, but did not tell him. I had debated about telling him, but I figured he would find out eventually.
Oh well, he can think what he wants to think about me. I would not do anything to deliberately hurt him.