Hi ReachingHigher-thank you so much for posting an update! You are an inspirational woman! Job turned me onto your threads and I am reading through them.

I have no advice to offer, but I want you to know that I have learned so much from your posts.

I am curious if your H remembers any of what happened to him? If so, does he know what triggered it? (Long shot I know.). Also, does he feel like he too is getting used to a new you?

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced