Still having a hard time today. Guess I wasn't nearly as detached as I thought. I'm glad that I got the chance to say some things to WW when we met, but 3 hours was too much face to face time. I handled myself well, was happy and confident overall, and didn't give in to any of her wayward tricks like crying, but I've been reeling ever since. And we get to spend 2 hours in a custody hearing this Tuesday, basically trying to make each other look like unfit parents. I'm confident that things will go my way, but I hate that I have to do this.
I really hope that after custody is settled and support numbers are finalized, that at least there is no more drama. We don't have a lot of assets to split and WW has already taken most of her own things so this should be the only thing left to dispute. I'll be staying away from any more face to face meetings with WW for a while after Tuesday. It just sets me back too far. I do hope that some day we can actually be at least casual friends and spent the occasional evening together catching up, but it's still too soon. In the mean time, trying to keep moving on.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.