T-4 Yes Fogg, let the physical separation began for, as far as emotions go, I don't want to have anything to do with this W who will be STBXW. Is this detachment? Unfortunately I don't think so.
I just arrived home after four wonderful days alone with my kids. We stayed in the same hotel as my then intact family stayed back in June, during our brief reconciliation. We got a room next door to the room where in June my W and I ML for the first time in two years. And now I arrive home just to find the place half striped and half emptied, because the move will happen in four days. STBXW even took every single drawing that covered our MBR, gifts from our kids, some of them portraying four persons: our family. Guess the kids will now have to learn how to draw a modern, split, divorced family. STBXW was in pyjamas but, because it is cold, she was wearing some warm jacket belonging to me!!! She asked me very insistingly how the trip she did not want to go went. I told her that the kids should answer her. She also asked if the kids had asked about us. She was pleased when I answered no. Today I simply hate this person and what she is doing to our family. I wish she had never entered my life.
Me43 W39 M 12y,T 15y S09,S07 Bomb Jun14 Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15 Share bed Mar/May15 Reconcile Jun15 Aug15 W sais D will happen D told to kids Sept15 W moved out with kids 01 October15