Hi Flight, you should stick to a single thread with all your postings until you have 100, then start a new thread. I think you were probably close to the mark when you said she doesn't see you as her H right now and that's why she dived behind the bed.

It doesn't mean that will never change, but I would guess that's where her mind is at just now. Don't give it too much headspace and carry on working on you my friend.

Good luck with things xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus