Early on my W had the same thought about family. I became closer with almost all of her family while she retreated from them. She didn't want to talk with my family even after she had been closer to them in the past because she thought they hated her. She doesn't determine who you talk with or who your family includes just ad it is the other way arounf.

Hope things are going well ripe, it looks like I'll be moving out Oct 1st also. Let the physical separations begin I guess.

Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be