BT, you have been doing a lot of deep reflective work lately, and while that's all to the good, it can also trigger emotional states, so go easy on yourself. The weight loss is awesome! Do you have a reward for yourself if you lose those ten? If I lose 20 more I'm getting myself a new dining room table.
Hugs
E
Yes, I think your right. Reading R books just makes me think how solvable our issues are and makes me want to keep trying to fight. I keep kicking myself for not picking up a book years ago, but then I think given how little character my H is showing now, whose to say it would have made a difference. H likely would have still gone through whatever this is, so we might have ended up here regardless. It's his journey.
Have not really thought about a reward for the 10lbs. Need to think about it!
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015