I completely understand what you are saying and to an extent you are correct. But these are all things that I know are coming. I needed to set a few boundaries and I also needed to do this to start trying to drop the rope. I have been in a place of hoping things don't progress even though I know they are. Making myself speak them out to her put a reality to things.
You are right though. I think I am doing this to see what happens. I guess what is the worst? She moves forward with everything I have been afraid of? I can't keep living the way we are though. It is too hard everyday on myself.
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