Sunny, I ran a national blended family organization for 10 years. We worked among other things for fathers' rights. I guess I don't want to give too many identifying details here?

I feel like a doctor who recognizes a certain type of mole after seeing so many of them grow into cancer... It looks very innocent to someone who hasn't seen them before. And you can't really see anything on the surface for a long time...

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17