Going to an L has nothing to do with whether 'it's over" , it is about self protection. Taking an unknown off the table.

Getting good L advice can remove much frustration and anger. It minimises bs in many areas. Allows you to consider dispassionately.

Seeing an L isn't about doing a D!

Find out the answers to your questions, it's important for your future and that of your kids to know the answer. It can very often be that you as a dad will have to be the stable safe parent if your wife gets wayward or MLC. Be prepared for this, if it isn't the position then that's a sigh of relief. If it is then you know how you stand.

And, as always, this is for you, keep your cards very close to your chest. Hold your counsel and your thoughts.

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Last edited by Vanilla; 09/26/15 09:08 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
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