I'm almost certain if you were marriage at all during the military service you get a portion of her retirement. I do remember a story years ago when I was in where someone's ex-wife was pissed about splitting part of her husband's retirement with someone he was married to for only a few months. I think it was almost more out a spit where he remarried again just so she would get less. Resources on base could easily answer this.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
