Az, nothing I have done has helped for the last 6 months or so. So, I think I am doing LRT as best as I can right now. I am having trouble staying upbeat around her, partly because all I want to do is grab her and kiss her. I have been working on being shorter in talking to her. But I fear it comes across as me being an ass. But, I have done everything for her the last 6 months, and that didn't help. I have not allowed her to cake eat since Monday.
Some questions: what ways can I improve my use of LRT. What can I do to help me detach. I keep having this thought of asking her out on a date, but I know it's not the right time. I have succeeded the last few days at 0 pressure, I believe. I can start each day with the best and toughest intentions, but when I see her and she is being nice to me, I forget what my game plan is for a bit. Then I probably come across as cold when I get back to LRT.
Goal for this morning: organize this house a little better with help of the boys. At least I will feel and appear like something is in order!
Last edited by dday; 09/26/1511:44 AM.
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
