May I ask why you started the D process if you don't want to be divorced?
Also, what have you been doing the last few months? If you've been here for a while, you'll know that the DB process is about you and not him. So what are you working on?
That's a good question. I started it because he told me multiple times he doesn't love me and doesn't want to be married to me. He's already acting like we're not married. And it makes me feel ill that I'm married to someone who is involved with someone else. I also know my H and he will probably never file, because it involves time and effort
I also have a financial incentive to get this process started. At one point he threatened me with alimony, and while I don't think he'll actually try to get anything from me, I'll be much better off if our divorce is finalized before I finish residency.
As for what I am working on...i haven't been working on very much. That's part of the reason why I started posting, to help give me that extra motivation and insight. I need to work on becoming more social and building up my support system, to start with.
Me: early 30s Husband: early 30s Married 3 years, together 6 No children
ILYBINILWY: 3/2015 He asks for divorce: 4/2015 Moves out for good: 5/2015 I start the divorce process 8/2015
