I'm having a rough one...tipped my hand during an argument, and all incriminating evidence has been removed from Facebook before I had the chance to save it. I still have copies of the forwarded letters. I guess they can lie in court, but isn't that risky?
Judy. Will the evidence of an OW give you an advantage IF there is a divorce? Out laws here are "no fault". H could be openly doing whatever he wants and it makes no,difference
Best to check with a L first before you assume anything really. An A can't stop someone from getting a D as its a no fault state but it could play a role in certain things that come out of it. Allimony, child support, division of property, etc.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
I'm sorry jpeg, I know how you feel there. Sometimes I feel that would be the easiest, maybe even best course to take. I am playing with my boys, yet I still wish I was with W. She is not the person I fell for though.
Keep hanging in there. Hope the fog lifts. Stay strong for the kids, your family. Try to have faith in your higher power. There is peace in that, at least. Keep moving forward! Not necessarily moving on.
Good luck, and have a good weekend!
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
Jpeg...proof of the affair would only help with spousal support. I intend to get what I can on that because I devoted my life to furthering him in his field. Raised 5 kids mostly alone because of his travel schedule - at times lived in 1 state while he lived in another. 8 moves to 5 different states. My hope is not to get nasty, just get why I'm actually allowed by the state.
Not any more, no. I busted him good. It doesn't really matter. As long as he is involved with A, and it just started about a month ago, there is nothing to be done. He's riding the adrenaline high. I think I'm adding to the fun by begging him to stay...gotta be good for his ego.
I'm done with that. Moving on while he's wrapped up with Skank.
