Originally Posted By: ILYNOT
What she means by not giving up is by not being tempted to call or text or email.


Perhaps Sandi would clarify. That is not at all the way I interpreted it. I took it to mean do not give up on DB'ing just because it seems hopeless. If she meant this to apply to a particular "rule", I would think she would have said "don't give IN".


H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21
M:12 BD:1/15
In-house Separation 2/15
DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15
Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16
Reconciliation 1/17
Obviously still struggling