What she means by not giving up is by not being tempted to call or text or email.
Perhaps Sandi would clarify. That is not at all the way I interpreted it. I took it to mean do not give up on DB'ing just because it seems hopeless. If she meant this to apply to a particular "rule", I would think she would have said "don't give IN".
H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21 M:12 BD:1/15 In-house Separation 2/15 DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15 Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16 Reconciliation 1/17 Obviously still struggling