What I've done when I see stuff, is document. I don't always do anything, but I take screen shots and save in a folder. I would be upset if I saw that search and knew that he had searched her numerous times before. And I would probably confront him about it.

I agree with you on something happening again - I've told H the same thing, once more and I'm done for good.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17