Thanks Rouky I needed to hear that. My son needs to see me face this with dignity and strength. I can do a better job of dealing with this. He has great sympathy toward my situation but I don't want him to think that he has to take care of me. I always get a boost from your comments and find my way back to the center!

Avanti I am really struggling with GAL. I am in such a funk right now. I feel the need to get out socially but am finding a million reasons not to. I need to get a plan and get off of my butt. I will check back with you both and let you know how it goes.


M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.