Carrie you are a gem. Talk about looking for the good in everything. Wow girl, I like your positive attitude, you just keep rolling with the punches and smiling. Im glad you had a great weekend, you deserved a nice weekend to refuel your self. Keep on doing whats working. I think your H is just really not sure of what to do. You guys always get along so good. Never any conflict and anger. Keep it up and he will see your unconditional love and relize what a head case he has been. I could learn a thing or 2 from you. Im going to try my best to avoid conflict this week and try to just have fun. Keep it mellow, be her friend. I think you have it alot easier with your H but maybe its because you laid the ground work. Thanks for your inspiration and God Bless, Eddy