have i been making mistakes too long part 6

[tkdmme]

I looking into getting some therapy for all of the kids. I cant talk to the W about it because im sure she would be against it. She still thinks im the only one she is hurting.

When my W got home last night I tried to talk to her about S7 and his behavior at school and at home. I told her that I had a talk with him and he told me that he has been worried about his mom and dad. She didn't say much but I got the impression that she wasn't happy that I had this talk with him. I told her that I thought the behavior and the bed wetting was a result of him being stressed out from the sitch. Again she didn't say a whole lot.

So S7 wet the bed again and she asked him why he didn't go to the bathroom before bed. He told her that he did and then he told her that he has been worried. She told him not to use that as an excuse. I walked out and she went to the closet for some new bed linens. We met in the hall and she said that he doesn't need to drink anything after 7pm and that he was using being worried as an excuse because I had a talk with him about it.

I don't know what to do anymore. I feel pretty good about myself and the changes im making. I just cant get the W to believe that her actions are causing a lot of turmoil in our house. No matter what comes out of my mouth or how it comes out, she will not agree with me on anything. Its not just me either. She does the same with anyone who disagrees with her actions. This includes her family.

Is there anything more I can do to make her understand that no matter the outcome everyone around will suffer from her actions to some degree?