Okay, So it looks like you understand why she may feel the way she does. It is obvious that you do not agree. I, like many others am in that same boat. But you have to realize you will not be able to fight her on these. Try to think about what you can do to change this.
examples...
Neglected. Don't just be there. I know you are tired, do what it takes to show her you are there. Maybe you need to change your diet for energy--who knows. Just make that sacrifice no matter how hard it is. Now this may not be possible right now since she is not living with you.
Exhausted. You said it. Start taking initiative. Beat her to the punch when you can.
Humiliation. Don't worry about how you have been humiliated right now. Listen to her, try to understand why she has felt humiliated. If you disagree you still need to validate her feelings.
Harassed. Stop following her. Stop pursuing her. Your reasons are definitely valid. But if she is feeling this way you have to change your actions. Don't try to justify what you have already done. She will figure it out and understand on her own eventually.
Do you have anything in mind to help in these areas?
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."