Ya...H tested me a "sort of" apology..."I don't mean to hurt you." I chose not to reply. His actions invalidate that apology. I had so many scathing replies to offer, it seemed best to not reply.
I know my lack of response irritated him, but really. An apology would be nicer if he actually "got off my foot." (Love that one!)
In the meantime, I'm taking away my penchant for caring. He can go on his merry way...I'll just keep working on me. I know I'll have better results.