Whenever my WW would say "This is why I want a divorce" it would like a kick to the gut. I would buckle, beg and plead that it can be better. It wasn't until I started agreeing with her did I notice a change in her. Whenever she would say things like that, I would say "You are right, our relationship is broken." Did I mean it? Nope, but it shook her up.
A wise play write (that is one of my very favourite) says much better than I can:
"To thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man."
Be authentic in your words.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW