Shall I Ask her about the affair...

[Huddy]

Mr me, don't take the advice given the wrong way. It's tough love (hell, I've even got annoyed with Azzork on my thread - he's right though!).

You're hurting, we all are, but you need to give your other half a bit of room to work it out on your own. We all make mistakes, but you do learn from it. Keep strong.