If your sitch is like others on this board, the breakdown of your M is the product of years of resentment. It takes a very long time to undo all that resentment. Your W is not going to instantly come back because you are making changes. I was told the same thing when I was a newbie. A bit hard to swallow, and I am sorry you are going through it, but the changes you make in you will be permanent no matter the outcome. You will emerge a better person when you're done.
RAI
So do you think that one would have to get to the point of selling the house and even divorce ..i guess the answer is yes
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
