Originally Posted By: Mr me
surely she will know I'm hurting....

NOPE - you totally dont get this.

She has no clue that you are hurting - she doesn't care,
she is hurting too much herself and NOTHING you say or do is going to convince her right now.

She needs space to heal herself!

Think of a hurt animal on the side of the road.

Do you think if you go up to it and pet it it will feel better?

Me-70, D37,S36