We opted for a "mediated" divorce, since we already split almost everything. Our mediator said that it would be done in roughly 6 sessions (he also said he didn't want to accept a full payment because he thought we would reconcile). We went to one mediation back in March or April. After our one session was over, he said "Well, we have maybe 1 full session left and that is that..." I scheduled another one a few weeks later, she cancelled it because she had "plans" (after she agreed on it). I scheduled another one and she cancelled that one as well, because she was worried about my health (yeah right).
I have brought it up since then from time to time, but every single time she balked. About a week or two ago she agreed to finally finish it. We just have a little homework left and then we can finish it. She still hasn't done her homework, she still hasn't set the appointment nor will she talk to me about it. All she can really say is "Why rush it?" or "What if we move away and reconcile?".
At the end of the day I think she is second guessing her decision, but she will never admit it because it would mean she is wrong and she HATES being wrong.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016
