Getting a Jump-start on the Inevitable---Piecing!!

[rj2]

I think it's effective to get the message across about him "losing" you, and that you don't want a D, but words may not always be the most effective medium, it really depends on your individual sitch. Find what works for you through experimenting. Say it here and there, but doing more may be required.. Mine came through more when he got scared seeing me with possible health crisis,and me calling him for help- rather than any of our convos about our R. Heck, when I mentioned me moving across country he was happy about me doing it! He told me all the reasons why I should in a friendly, enthused way! Major macho front, perhaps even him being in "control" of this- he can't make me happy or he just knows it didn't feel right anymore, so he's gonna decide what I should or we should do. So, words were not the medium in that case....

It's gonna happen good for you, I know it though, girl!! Just a matter of finding what works, so keep trying to find your angle!