Johns the thing that I am finding is ...my w told me she started to detach from me almost three years ago I for one did not see this ....however the last year she did stop complaining and I thought that things were getting better now the problem now is when something upsets her or she does not feel happy she spews rather than keeps it bottled in which is to be expected...hence you. Might be feeling the same with the anger...
I do not know if my w will come back to me I really do not know if it took her a good three years to fall out of love with me then it might take the same or longer to get things on the move in the right direction ..then again nothing might get her back
To answer your question I do not know be patient very patient
Take care
Ghost
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
I would just like to get her to try at least. Complained she doesn't have a washer and dryer, so I buy one. Always has a different excuse why she won't work it out. Said she threw the cards away I gave her but the are in her car I saw.
You can't be thinking about when (if) she is going to contact you. It will get you no where except wondering about things that you cannot control. Focus on yourself and she will slowly be in your mind less and less. Trust me.
Everybody told me the day she left to leave her alone and don't contact her. I actually think she'd be home now if I would've. Instead all I did was harrass, fight, yell, call the police on her and the worst things possible, and I did it cause I was hurt. Probably ruined any chance of getting her back.
Johne, GAL buddy. Give her space, do your own thing.
I have been doing this for roughly 10 months. I did EVERYTHING wrong. Sent cards, flowers, called/text/emailed constantly, called her family/friends, fought with her constantly, went to her work, proposed again, offered to do whatever it took to "fix" our problems. Problem was, she was already checked out.
I stopped it all and started working on myself. Like they say, be the guy that she would be foolish to leave. Do not brag to her about your changes, let her see them for herself. I know it's hard buddy, I know it's tough. But stick to it. Look up 180 and follow it to a T, it will change things. It might not bring her back, but it will change you.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016
