Uphill, this is to you (sorry for the hijack, dday.) b/c I don't think you are seeing what I'm trying to point out. My point is not over what he says to her. My point is that they are separated and he shouldn't be contacting her to tell her anything. If he decided to be with friends, instead of going to the game, why should he contact her to say anything? He does not owe her an explanation when he's trying to not be her friend, at the moment. Plus, it's total pursuit.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
