We talked a bit over the weekend about how things would go. First and foremost, we must do what's best for the kids. She said that it would go as easy as I make it and that she would really get nasty if she felt I was out of line with the kids (I really don't think she wants to go that route, with her EA and all that would come out along with it). She told me that I could have primary custody until she got back and then it would be 50/50. She spoke of the bills - she would continue to pay everything she has been until after she left that duty station (retirement) and we would work things out then.
She wants a no contest divorce. I am thinking that she doesn't want to go to court.
Now, this past Tuesday we were talking and she stated that she would be willing to consider waiting until her retirement (coming back from that duty station) to file or not. Who knows.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
