How about when she would harass me to make more money, 60k a year wasnt cutting it for her expense. If i didnt find a better job or make something about it she would leave me. I had to get a second job in order to meet her needs. Of course i wont have time ! I am only human i get tired from working everyday of the week. What about when she would say me working didnt mean nothing because she had to tell me to do it? Thats not humiliation?
Sounds kind of enabling to me.
Why do you feel the need to meet this NEED of hers? What do YOU get out of it?
