Silly question. Our anniversary is the November first. I did aske her if she wanted anything and that if she didn't tell me then I would just buy her something. That was before I told her I was done trying. Should I give her anything. Like a card or something like that, or ignore the day. We area still married even though we are separated. Divorce is filed. Just wanting opinions. I ordered Stella on dvd. It was her moms favorite movie and she has passed away.