Shall I Ask her about the affair...

[Cadet]

I have read the rules, but I'd still like to ask W one question:-

Do you want to save the marriage?

Can I should I ask it?

I would not,

Rule #1 is to believe NOTHING she says,
so if she says something to answer this question,
do you believe it?

Really struggling today so want to look at her mobile which I know is a real no no.

Wondering if it would be easier to let her go so I don't get hurt anymore and maybe I can heal....but yet she text me immediately when she completed her run.

I hurt so much I'm alive but not living.

Yes you should DETACH and Let GO.

What does that mean to you?

What do you need to do to start living again?
With or without her?