when you say "plan B", do you mean there may be another guy in the picture?
There might be-there might not be, however you are not Plan A right now - right?
If there is someone else does that change what you want?
Originally Posted By: Scotsman
What do I want? I would like to reconcile with her, but in an improved relationship. If she doesn't want to, then I would cut all ties and move on.
My guess is that you won't find out the answer to this question until long after you were planning on getting the answer.
Originally Posted By: Scotsman
Do you think I should be much more unavailable? Not "visit" with her when she ask? Basically totally remove myself from the scene until/unless she's will to recommit? I sometimes feel a little like she's cake eating.
I would keep living your life to the fullest and take your eyes off of her and place them squarely on YOU. Nothing you do or don't do is going to snap her out of this. She has to do that on her own.
