Yes, each one is very different and I am trying my best to adapt to each ones uniqueness and sensitivities. Its tough, they all seem to think this is all my fault. I am thinking that counselling may be best for each of them to get through this.
I understand your comment about pink elephants and divorcees. Of course I am not coming out and saying don't treat men like your mother does. I am trying to BE the kind of man I want them to be with. To treat the women in my life, other women and people in general the way that they should expect to be treated.
M: 48 W: 45 Married: 16 years D1-14, D2-11, D3-9 BD: May 29 She moved out 2 weeks later with kids Awaiting mediation