Hi V,

Yes, each one is very different and I am trying my best to adapt to each ones uniqueness and sensitivities. Its tough, they all seem to think this is all my fault. I am thinking that counselling may be best for each of them to get through this.

I understand your comment about pink elephants and divorcees. Of course I am not coming out and saying don't treat men like your mother does. I am trying to BE the kind of man I want them to be with. To treat the women in my life, other women and people in general the way that they should expect to be treated.


M: 48
W: 45
Married: 16 years
D1-14, D2-11, D3-9
BD: May 29
She moved out 2 weeks later with kids
Awaiting mediation